If so, she may have had help getting the job.
I’ve been thinking about what it meant to provide “good
references,” as this children’s nurse (aka “Nanny”) position required. Who would have provided these references?
Margaret Lynch-Brennan mentions several ways an Irish girl/woman
could obtain a domestic job: through
relatives, word of mouth, through the Catholic Church, through the Irish-Catholic community, and
sometimes through employment agencies, called "intelligence offices" [1].
I’ve already mentioned the Ellen Murphy employed as a
domestic servant in Philo’s father-in-law’s household (See Monday’s post). If Ellen and Mary were related, Ellen may
have been instrumental in helping Mary gain employment with Philo.
Also, St. Patrick’s Church, the Catholic church that Mary (Murphy) Carrigan (Annie's mother) likely
attended (and was later married in) was not far from 7 High Street and was even
closer to 88 Church Street, where Philo resided in 1870. Yet Margaret Lynch-Brennan also mentions problems Catholic domestic servants had with some employers who were annoyed by time taken off for obligatory Mass on Sundays and feast days, etc. This suggests that certain employers would have preferred a domestic servant who was other than Catholic, and sometimes this meant not wanting to hire any Irish at all. “Nevertheless, it was Irish girls who ended up meeting the middle-class demand for servants because native-born Americans eschewed this low-status occupation in which servants were stigmatized for their work” [2].
The 1867 Hartford
Daily Courant ad, however, did not contain anti-Catholic or anti-Irish
language. I do think it contains language
consistent with parents wanting the best possible care for their child, hence
the desire for an “experienced” nurse who could provide the required “good
references.”
As far as local Hartford employment agencies in 1867 go, I
haven’t discovered any, but I’ll keep looking.
Now Mary was NOT the only domestic servant in Philo’s household
in 1870. Ellen Coffey (about 18-years-old)
was younger than Mary, and was reported to have been born in Connecticut to parents of foreign birth
(likely Ireland).
And according to the census, Ellen had the advantage of
being able to read and write, whereas Mary did not.
Could Ellen (rather than Mary) have been the “Nurse” to
young Edith Ives? Yes, but Ellen would
have been about 15 when the Hartford
Daily Courant ad was placed. Would
a 15-year-old possess the experience necessary for the job? Perhaps:
She may have had younger siblings to help care for. But Mary
was about five years older than Ellen and may have had even more experience.
Notes:
[1] Lynch-Brennan, Margaret.
“Ubiquitous Bridget: Irish
Immigrant Women in Domestic Service, 1840-1930,” Joseph Lee and Marion R.
Casey, eds., Making the Irish
American: History of the Irish in the
United States: 340; Google Books (http://www.books.google.com : accessed
24 October 2013).
[2] Ibid., p. 337.